Ok, so i have not relaxed my hair for about 3 or 4 years now, and before that i did it ALOT less often then most people do it. I have no relaxed hair left on my head at all (it all broke off lol).
Before i relaxed my hair, my hair was nice and thick (although i didn’t appreciate it at the time) My hair was first relaxed when i was just in nursery! (really bad) and only done once, it was re-done when i got to primary school and then on and off during my school days.
Before i relaxed my hair, i would guess my hair was a 3c or 4a…but thats just trying to guess from pics ive seen…obviously my hair is really messed up from relaxing at such a young age…now i dont know what to do with it.
My hair is so thin and it just doesnt look good being this thin, its even thin when i leave it curly, its just thin but frizzy. I used to have very defined curls with alot of shrinkage..now its these wispy very loose curls. I would love to have my old curls back, will it ever happen or am i just chasing a false dream??
To get real curls i need to load my hair with product otherwise my curls are too loose. I’d love my hair to stand up like scary spice lol but as it has grown from when i cut it, it just falls down..it has a little volume but not enough….for any of you that have relaxed their hair in the past, and it left your hair (permanently??) changed and thin, did it ever thicken up again? do you ever get your old curls back?
PS. i can make my hair LOOK thickr, but by mid-day it starts looking lank again, how can i keep it looking thick all day